I know. I--I want to, at some point, that's why I was asking about what humans do, because--I don't think it's the same, for the Dalish. I just...want to be prepared. I know I can't get it perfect, but I can try to smooth out as many potential wrinkles as possible.

[ She feels like she's all over the place, she doesn't want to, it's not proper, but she wants to. Creators damn it all, she's a mess, and Anders is a saint for dealing with her and her haphazard emotions. And he gives her a bit of hope--he's like, super old, and he still found someone, so maybe she's not as much of a risk of being an old maid as she thought. ]

Does he ever...say anything, about me? Like--I don't know, just talking about me?