[There's a long, long silence from Anders.]

There have recently been... matters where I question her judgment of late. I don't know what's going on. A mage was being assaulted by a Templar and she stood back and watched and apparently didn't mind her husband simply standing back and watching either, for instance.

It's... I don't know if I should speculate, but there's a chance she's simply missing her family and so desperate for her new family that she's sacrificing who she was.